Last year, in early January, I started a series of 13 Things in 2013. It was a pledge to myself to try 13 new things during the year. You may have then noticed there were very few posts with this label. I did do 13 new things in 2013, but many of them were very difficult, emotional and private, and not experiences I care to share publicly. Yes, positive, fun and happy things happened too, but my main focus was elsewhere and therefore they never made it to my blog.
The big question now is, do I start a 14 Things in 2014 series? Last years promise did not seem to work out so well, after all. The title does not flow off the tongue in quite the same way either. Instead I will make it Do More in Two Thousand Four(teen). Crossing my fingers that this will turn out to mean more fun, more adventures, more excitement (in a good way). More cards, and quilts and maybe I will even finish that knitting project started oh so long ago...
And, hopefully, more blogging
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Tuesday, January 7, 2014
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
On the Line
Welcome to my first entry for 52 Photos Project! I became aware of this project originally through my sister, and most recently through my mother who informed me it was fine to jump in any time. So... here I am!
Last weeks prompt is "On the Line". Sure, I am jumping in last minute, but the gallery is still open, so why not?
I have spent the last several days thinking of lines, and looking for lines and just not feeling very creative about lines. Then I thought of Princess A's math class. She is taking Geometry; and what is Geometry, but non-stop LINES!
Here is a sample from tonight's homework:
Last weeks prompt is "On the Line". Sure, I am jumping in last minute, but the gallery is still open, so why not?
I have spent the last several days thinking of lines, and looking for lines and just not feeling very creative about lines. Then I thought of Princess A's math class. She is taking Geometry; and what is Geometry, but non-stop LINES!
Here is a sample from tonight's homework:
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Ranting Over Others' Reactions to a Tragedy
This article came up through my news feed on Facebook this afternoon. I am appalled at some of the comments:
One says that there is plenty of research that the majority of peanut allergies are psychological (!!)
Another suggested that instead of banning the foods, allergic people should just avoid places containing the allergen. Umm, school?!?
Yet another who says it is not his problem, and he is tired of having to change his life because of someone else's problem.
When Princess A was three she ate a cashew. As soon as she swallowed it she started screaming that her tongue hurt, that her throat hurt, that her chest hurt, that her belly hurt, then she started vomiting. Fortunately she missed the Christmas turkey that was just about to be served.
Two months later (Valentine's Day, to be exact), she took a bite of a peanut butter cup handed out at her (supposedly peanut-free) daycare. Again, she immediately started screaming. I had her spit it out, rinsed her mouth out, gave her Benadryl and all was well. Thankfully.
Less than a year after this, we went out to dinner. We told the hostess of her allergy before we even agreed to eat there. Told the server as we were handed our menus, and reiterated the information when we ordered. We were assured everything was safe. Turns out it wasn't, there was a walnut in the oatmeal cookie. Again, screaming in pain, and I could see her lips swell. Her words were slurred as her tongue swelled as well. Benadryl was given, an epi-pen was administered and paramedics were called.
Each of these events occurred before she was 4-1/2 years old, the final two at places that had assured us they were nut free.
If she so much as taps a peanut/treenut, she will get a rash. I have also known her to cough/wheeze if she gets too close to peanut butter.
These reactions are neither imagined nor psychosomatic. Do you really believe a three-year-old is that cunning? How could the four-year-old have known there was a walnut in the cookie when the shop who baked them didn't?
I know another little girl who, at age 2, was served a peanut butter sandwich. And by 'served' I mean it was placed on the table in front of her. The reaction was instantaneous. She did not touch it, she did not bite it, but her face and lips blew up.
Did you know that reactions can vary? That if you have a mild allergic reaction one time, does not mean you are mildly allergic, it just means you were lucky. Next time can be a whole different story. Allergies also can develop over time. I met a woman just a couple of weeks ago (Princess A and I took her Zentangle class) who said she had a horrible reaction in a Thai restaurant when she has never had one before. The culprit was peanuts.
I find the reaction of 'I should not have to change, it is your problem' absolutely horrifying. We are not talking about someone who does not like mushrooms and insists that no one else eat them either. Nor someone who chooses to eat vegan and expects all to accommodate. This is a matter of Life and Death.
I think all schools, daycare centers, kid gyms, etc. should ban peanuts and treenuts. I do not believe this will lead to the restriction of every food under the sun that has ever caused someone trouble. In fact, the only other allergy I have heard of that can have such a devastating effect just from being inhaled is latex. And I know of a school that did not hesitate to ban latex from the ENTIRE school for that ONE KID.
Most children of elementary school age and younger are not savvy enough to advocate for themselves, nor are the youngest ones able to read a label. Kids also have a tendency to spill things, leave messes and not wash hands, then touch everything. That peanut butter on his desk, or on his hand can spread throughout the entire room. Your kid will survive if he does not eat a peanut butter sandwich. My kid could die if he does. Is your child's immediate gratification more important than my daughters life??
Plus, sometimes it is your problem. Some years ago, Princess A and I flew to FL, to see my sister. I bought tickets with an airline whose policy was that while they were unable to forbid peanuts altogether, they would prepare a peanut free area, six rows in front, behind and across the aisle of an allergic person. The flight attendants made an announcement that "due to an allergy, rows blank through blank would not be served any peanuts and any that they had purchased needed to stay in their bags, or we would have to land in North Carolina and nobody wants that".
But of course we all know that person who insists her kid is allergic to milk, then proceeds to serve him yogurt as part of lunch and ice cream for dessert. Or that other one who says she is allergic to dairy and, when accidentally served cheese topping, just scrapes it off and eats it anyway. Or the one whose kid is allergic to dairy, eggs, peanuts, and treenuts, but the child does not bring her own snack to the amusement park and the epipen is purposely left (by the parents) in the car. Or yet another one who says he is so deathly allergic to fish that he expects everyone in his apartment complex(!) to no longer prepare fish in their own homes(!), yet does not even own an epipen. (Trust me, he was not allergic)
Please, please, please, do not say there is an allergy if it is only a dislike or disdain or totally grossed-outedness. Just say you find it repellant. Otherwise, you seriously undermine the safety of those with true allergies. I am certain the reason that so many believe that all of this allergy talk is just "hype" or made up is because of stories like those above. Allergies are very real and very dangerous. Those of us whose lives are ruled by them (you have to eat in order to survive) need to be believed and need to be respected.
Finally, never, ever serve an allergen to a guest with an allergy. Ask before preparing food if there are any allergies in the party. Be cognizant of the ingredients you use and warn people of what is not safe. Better yet, don't cook with those troublesome items at all. I am always willing to answer questions as to what exactly Princess A can and cannot eat, and how to prepare something to be absolutely sure it is safe. I also do not mind providing for her (I have baked her personal cupcakes for many a birthday party), but do appreciate if the majority of your menu is safe for her to eat. I know I am obnoxiously judgmental over how people prepare food for my daughter. It is not personal, I am just trying to keep her safe. She wants to be able to participate in the festivities as fully as the other kids do, after all. A trip to the ER is not fun for anyone.
One says that there is plenty of research that the majority of peanut allergies are psychological (!!)
Another suggested that instead of banning the foods, allergic people should just avoid places containing the allergen. Umm, school?!?
Yet another who says it is not his problem, and he is tired of having to change his life because of someone else's problem.
When Princess A was three she ate a cashew. As soon as she swallowed it she started screaming that her tongue hurt, that her throat hurt, that her chest hurt, that her belly hurt, then she started vomiting. Fortunately she missed the Christmas turkey that was just about to be served.
Two months later (Valentine's Day, to be exact), she took a bite of a peanut butter cup handed out at her (supposedly peanut-free) daycare. Again, she immediately started screaming. I had her spit it out, rinsed her mouth out, gave her Benadryl and all was well. Thankfully.
Less than a year after this, we went out to dinner. We told the hostess of her allergy before we even agreed to eat there. Told the server as we were handed our menus, and reiterated the information when we ordered. We were assured everything was safe. Turns out it wasn't, there was a walnut in the oatmeal cookie. Again, screaming in pain, and I could see her lips swell. Her words were slurred as her tongue swelled as well. Benadryl was given, an epi-pen was administered and paramedics were called.
Each of these events occurred before she was 4-1/2 years old, the final two at places that had assured us they were nut free.
If she so much as taps a peanut/treenut, she will get a rash. I have also known her to cough/wheeze if she gets too close to peanut butter.
These reactions are neither imagined nor psychosomatic. Do you really believe a three-year-old is that cunning? How could the four-year-old have known there was a walnut in the cookie when the shop who baked them didn't?
I know another little girl who, at age 2, was served a peanut butter sandwich. And by 'served' I mean it was placed on the table in front of her. The reaction was instantaneous. She did not touch it, she did not bite it, but her face and lips blew up.
Did you know that reactions can vary? That if you have a mild allergic reaction one time, does not mean you are mildly allergic, it just means you were lucky. Next time can be a whole different story. Allergies also can develop over time. I met a woman just a couple of weeks ago (Princess A and I took her Zentangle class) who said she had a horrible reaction in a Thai restaurant when she has never had one before. The culprit was peanuts.
I find the reaction of 'I should not have to change, it is your problem' absolutely horrifying. We are not talking about someone who does not like mushrooms and insists that no one else eat them either. Nor someone who chooses to eat vegan and expects all to accommodate. This is a matter of Life and Death.
I think all schools, daycare centers, kid gyms, etc. should ban peanuts and treenuts. I do not believe this will lead to the restriction of every food under the sun that has ever caused someone trouble. In fact, the only other allergy I have heard of that can have such a devastating effect just from being inhaled is latex. And I know of a school that did not hesitate to ban latex from the ENTIRE school for that ONE KID.
Most children of elementary school age and younger are not savvy enough to advocate for themselves, nor are the youngest ones able to read a label. Kids also have a tendency to spill things, leave messes and not wash hands, then touch everything. That peanut butter on his desk, or on his hand can spread throughout the entire room. Your kid will survive if he does not eat a peanut butter sandwich. My kid could die if he does. Is your child's immediate gratification more important than my daughters life??
Plus, sometimes it is your problem. Some years ago, Princess A and I flew to FL, to see my sister. I bought tickets with an airline whose policy was that while they were unable to forbid peanuts altogether, they would prepare a peanut free area, six rows in front, behind and across the aisle of an allergic person. The flight attendants made an announcement that "due to an allergy, rows blank through blank would not be served any peanuts and any that they had purchased needed to stay in their bags, or we would have to land in North Carolina and nobody wants that".
But of course we all know that person who insists her kid is allergic to milk, then proceeds to serve him yogurt as part of lunch and ice cream for dessert. Or that other one who says she is allergic to dairy and, when accidentally served cheese topping, just scrapes it off and eats it anyway. Or the one whose kid is allergic to dairy, eggs, peanuts, and treenuts, but the child does not bring her own snack to the amusement park and the epipen is purposely left (by the parents) in the car. Or yet another one who says he is so deathly allergic to fish that he expects everyone in his apartment complex(!) to no longer prepare fish in their own homes(!), yet does not even own an epipen. (Trust me, he was not allergic)
Please, please, please, do not say there is an allergy if it is only a dislike or disdain or totally grossed-outedness. Just say you find it repellant. Otherwise, you seriously undermine the safety of those with true allergies. I am certain the reason that so many believe that all of this allergy talk is just "hype" or made up is because of stories like those above. Allergies are very real and very dangerous. Those of us whose lives are ruled by them (you have to eat in order to survive) need to be believed and need to be respected.
Finally, never, ever serve an allergen to a guest with an allergy. Ask before preparing food if there are any allergies in the party. Be cognizant of the ingredients you use and warn people of what is not safe. Better yet, don't cook with those troublesome items at all. I am always willing to answer questions as to what exactly Princess A can and cannot eat, and how to prepare something to be absolutely sure it is safe. I also do not mind providing for her (I have baked her personal cupcakes for many a birthday party), but do appreciate if the majority of your menu is safe for her to eat. I know I am obnoxiously judgmental over how people prepare food for my daughter. It is not personal, I am just trying to keep her safe. She wants to be able to participate in the festivities as fully as the other kids do, after all. A trip to the ER is not fun for anyone.
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Quartet Coaching Part I - The Outfit
This past Saturday, my quartet had the honor of coaching with Kim Vaughn (formerly Hulbert), Sweet Adelines International Faculty, International quartet champion (several times over), International Chorus Champion director and all around amazing singer and teacher. Though shaky in the week leading up to it, I had a blast on stage. Oh right, did I mention our coaching took place in front of many of the regions quartets? 
During our weekly rehearsal we discussed what to wear. Our chorus director (who happened to be there) said she was going shopping that afternoon and would keep her eye out for some tops. The following night at chorus rehearsal, she had a bag full! (Not to mention a perfect pair of earrings) We chose two sets (everything must be bought times four, remember) and sent one back. We wore the more casual (and slightly cooler; it is summer, all) top for our big day.
The lead and tenor went shopping later in the week and found necklaces, bracelets and bangles to match
Kim complimented us on our appearance and talked to the other attendees about how your impression on stage sets the judges to expect good (or not so good) things from you.
On Sunday while blurfing (I have been trying to do a better job with keeping up with everyone's blogs), I came upon The Deconstructed Sketch (#112). Immediately my "All Dressed Up" dies came to mind, and a card was born. This one will go to Marion (SONE director), our personal shopper.
Card Details:
During our weekly rehearsal we discussed what to wear. Our chorus director (who happened to be there) said she was going shopping that afternoon and would keep her eye out for some tops. The following night at chorus rehearsal, she had a bag full! (Not to mention a perfect pair of earrings) We chose two sets (everything must be bought times four, remember) and sent one back. We wore the more casual (and slightly cooler; it is summer, all) top for our big day.
The lead and tenor went shopping later in the week and found necklaces, bracelets and bangles to match
Kim complimented us on our appearance and talked to the other attendees about how your impression on stage sets the judges to expect good (or not so good) things from you.
On Sunday while blurfing (I have been trying to do a better job with keeping up with everyone's blogs), I came upon The Deconstructed Sketch (#112). Immediately my "All Dressed Up" dies came to mind, and a card was born. This one will go to Marion (SONE director), our personal shopper.
Card Details:
Image: N/A
Sentiment: SU
Cardstock: GP, SU
Ink: SU
Coloring: N/A
Coloring: N/A
Tools: SU Framelits die
Embellies: SU button, SU Bakers twine, SU Dimensionals
Saturday, May 4, 2013
Thank You to Yoda
When Princess A was just barely three, she liked to sing into the microphone on my computer and have me play it back for her. I decided to use this opportunity to my advantage and had her sing Happy Birthday to various people and then I would email them the track. One of them was to Laura, but Princess A, being just three did not pronounce Ls or Rs very well. The resulting line was, "Happy Birthday Dear Yoda". Laura has been Yoda ever since.
Fast forward to 2013. Yoda is now on the Management Team of my Chorus; her position being Corresponding Secretary or Communications Manager or something like that. Anyway, she was talking after Contest about needing to send cards, and I jumped in and said, "What kind of cards do you need? I will make them for you".
She said she needed three congratulations and one thank you and that she would need more in a few weeks to send a "love gift" to the chorus and quartet competing in Hawaii. When I got home, I remembered this as she needed multiple thank yous and one of something else, whose theme I could not recall. Oops! What can I say it was a long, busy weekend and I was tired. (But I won some pretty medals
)
As soon as I realized that the thank you image was flowers, I decided to make lots (16 to be exact) so I could send them for a swap as well. (Soon after I had signed up for two spots in Barb's Fabulous Flowers swap, the hostess for May/June in the Sisterhood of the Traveling Cards picked flowers as her theme as well. That is a lot of flowers!) It is hard to tell in the scan, but the center of eight of the falling flowers is a pearl. Without further ado, here are the cards that Yoda will be sending and will also go to the SOTC swap:
Card Details:
Fast forward to 2013. Yoda is now on the Management Team of my Chorus; her position being Corresponding Secretary or Communications Manager or something like that. Anyway, she was talking after Contest about needing to send cards, and I jumped in and said, "What kind of cards do you need? I will make them for you".
She said she needed three congratulations and one thank you and that she would need more in a few weeks to send a "love gift" to the chorus and quartet competing in Hawaii. When I got home, I remembered this as she needed multiple thank yous and one of something else, whose theme I could not recall. Oops! What can I say it was a long, busy weekend and I was tired. (But I won some pretty medals
)
As soon as I realized that the thank you image was flowers, I decided to make lots (16 to be exact) so I could send them for a swap as well. (Soon after I had signed up for two spots in Barb's Fabulous Flowers swap, the hostess for May/June in the Sisterhood of the Traveling Cards picked flowers as her theme as well. That is a lot of flowers!) It is hard to tell in the scan, but the center of eight of the falling flowers is a pearl. Without further ado, here are the cards that Yoda will be sending and will also go to the SOTC swap:
Card Details:
Image: Stampin Up!
Sentiment: (SU)
Cardstock: SU, GP
Ink: SU
Tools: Martha Stewart Punch Around the Page (Corner)
Coloring: N/A
Embellies: Viva Pearl Pen
On a related note, I posted this to Yoda's Facebook Wall this morning:
On a related note, I posted this to Yoda's Facebook Wall this morning:
Monday, April 8, 2013
5K Diary - Week One
4/1-3/13: Having a very difficult time getting outside! Too many requests for my time, cold or wet weather, and just the fear that I won't be able to do it, has kept me inside. How is it possible that I cannot motivate myself and do that which I so desperately want to do?
What finally got me out there? A comment on my first 5K Diary post. I imagined Tami asking me how things are going and me having to say I had not started yet. I definitely did not want to have to give that answer! So, thank you Tami, for helping me get over the motivational hump.
Week 1 Day 1 (W1D1): This is it! I am going out there today, no matter what!
I thought for sure there was going to be one more jog, but the app said "cool down" so I did, even though I know I could have done another round. My right knee has started slipping (it kinda bends all sorts of directions ie sideways/backwards, which does not feel very good and often makes me lose balance), so I may need to think about wrapping it until the surrounding muscles get stronger. Other than that, I feel great! Gemini enjoyed it too. Only took her about 1.5 times around the track to get the idea that she needed to stay next to me, no matter what her nose was telling her. Roxy was not happy about being left home. Poor Poochie, but those short little legs are just not going to go the distance.
W1D2: My knee has been uncomfortable since that first run. Not because of the first run, cuz this is something I have had for quite some time, though admittedly running did not help. Before going out this morning I scoped out the fridge (freezer actually), discovered several bags of frozen veggies. Am going to commandeer a bag of "Knee Peas" when I get home. Also, I took an extra green pill before leaving and will take my regular dose when I get home. (Don't worry, I know what I am doing.) Hopefully that will keep everything copacetic. Amazingly my knee felt absolutely fine while jogging! I am very happy it was not a painful experience today. However, the back of my ankle had some trouble.
W1D3: The thermometer said 37F when I left this morning; by the time I came home (just about an hour later) it read 50F. So glad I removed that extra layer before heading out. Finished up with a bloody ankle again, though not as bad as before (there was less to rinse out of my shoe anyway). The Moleskin did not stay on; maybe a bigger piece next time? Strangely, I noticed that it hurt less when jogging (barely noticeable, in fact) than it did during the walking phases. Gemini was obsessed with the man at the track, who ended up about 20 feet behind us for the last lap. My left arm got a bit of a workout trying to keep her focused on me.
Next week the jogging sections are going to be 50% longer. I really need to find a solution for this ankle, and maybe some strong smelling treats to carry in my pockets to keep Gemini's attention.
What finally got me out there? A comment on my first 5K Diary post. I imagined Tami asking me how things are going and me having to say I had not started yet. I definitely did not want to have to give that answer! So, thank you Tami, for helping me get over the motivational hump.
Week 1 Day 1 (W1D1): This is it! I am going out there today, no matter what!
I thought for sure there was going to be one more jog, but the app said "cool down" so I did, even though I know I could have done another round. My right knee has started slipping (it kinda bends all sorts of directions ie sideways/backwards, which does not feel very good and often makes me lose balance), so I may need to think about wrapping it until the surrounding muscles get stronger. Other than that, I feel great! Gemini enjoyed it too. Only took her about 1.5 times around the track to get the idea that she needed to stay next to me, no matter what her nose was telling her. Roxy was not happy about being left home. Poor Poochie, but those short little legs are just not going to go the distance.
W1D2: My knee has been uncomfortable since that first run. Not because of the first run, cuz this is something I have had for quite some time, though admittedly running did not help. Before going out this morning I scoped out the fridge (freezer actually), discovered several bags of frozen veggies. Am going to commandeer a bag of "Knee Peas" when I get home. Also, I took an extra green pill before leaving and will take my regular dose when I get home. (Don't worry, I know what I am doing.) Hopefully that will keep everything copacetic. Amazingly my knee felt absolutely fine while jogging! I am very happy it was not a painful experience today. However, the back of my ankle had some trouble.
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| Looks like I am officially committed; I certainly cannot return the shoes after this |
W1D3: The thermometer said 37F when I left this morning; by the time I came home (just about an hour later) it read 50F. So glad I removed that extra layer before heading out. Finished up with a bloody ankle again, though not as bad as before (there was less to rinse out of my shoe anyway). The Moleskin did not stay on; maybe a bigger piece next time? Strangely, I noticed that it hurt less when jogging (barely noticeable, in fact) than it did during the walking phases. Gemini was obsessed with the man at the track, who ended up about 20 feet behind us for the last lap. My left arm got a bit of a workout trying to keep her focused on me.
Next week the jogging sections are going to be 50% longer. I really need to find a solution for this ankle, and maybe some strong smelling treats to carry in my pockets to keep Gemini's attention.
Saturday, March 16, 2013
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
Android Blogging
This morning as I was catching up on my swap threads, I came across instructions from April on posting via cell phone. And here I am. I won't say it is the easiest thing to do, but I am sure I will get the hang of it. Thanks April :-*
On New Years Eve, Main Squeeze and I went snowshoeing for the first time. I had given them to him for Christmas 2011, but there was never enough snow. As we were traversing the snow covered field, I told him how I had been thinking of listing '13 Things To Do in 2013' and now I could not use 'try something new' for snowshoeing. He suggested it could be grandfathered in. I am more of a stickler.
Blogging through my phone, however, can officially count as 'learn something new'. Now to decide if that is synonymous with 'try something new' ;-)
Happy New Year!!
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